Michael Lee Stallard and Jason Pankau
K. Anders Ericsson and his colleagues famously concluded that 10,000 hours of deliberate practice are required to achieve excellence and expert status. Malcolm Gladwell popularized Ericsson’s 10,000 hour rule in his book Outliers. What many forget is that Ericsson’s research also concluded the experts benefitted from coaching and mentoring by people who told them the truth, even when it was painful to hear.
The point here is that no one becomes great at anything without coaching and mentoring. Do you have coaches and mentors in your life who help you learn, grow and develop into the person you want to become? Do you want to be better at exercising and eating healthy? Why not ask someone you know who is good in those areas to mentor you. Do you want to be a better listener? Ask a good listener you know to give you suggestions about how to improve. Want to be a better parent and spouse? Ask your children and spouse how you can improve.
Michael Lee Stallard is president of E Pluribus Partners. Jason Pankau is the president of Life Spring Network, a Christian ministry. They write, speak and teach workshops on leadership and employee engagement. Michael and Jason are co-authors of the bestselling book Fired Up or Burned Out.
