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		<title>Summer: A Season to Connect</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2010 10:25:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Lee Stallard</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[<p>Summer is an excellent time to be intentional about strengthening the relationships in your life, including your relationships at work. Think about the people you need to have good relationships with to perform your job well (I call these &#8220;Critical Connections&#8221;) then consider the present state of each relationship.  If some of these Critical Connection [&#8230;]</p>
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					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Summer is an excellent time to be intentional about strengthening the relationships in your life, including your relationships at work. Think about the people you need to have good relationships with to perform your job well (I call these &#8220;Critical Connections&#8221;) then consider the present state of each relationship.  If some of these Critical Connection relationships are not strong, you need to take action to strengthen them.</p>
<p>Once you&#8217;ve identified your Critical Connection priorities, spend time with these individuals over meals or coffee.  Ask them questions unrelated to work so that you get to know them as human beings. Asking questions of another human being, then listening carefully to their reply so that you can understand and empathize with them, demonstrates that you value them as human beings.  Understanding and empathy reflect the essence of connection.</p>
<p>Here are are a few questions to consider asking when you meet with your Critical Connections:</p>
<p>Where did you grow up?<br />
What are your interests outside of work?<br />
What are your favorite movies and television shows?<br />
What are you favorite books?<br />
Who are your favorite musicians?<br />
Who are your heroes?<br />
Where did you go to college and what did you study?<br />
What events in your life shaped you as a person?<br />
Who has had the greatest impact on your life and why?<br />
What is the best advice you received?</p>
<p>These questions should give you plenty to talk about and help you strengthen your connection with the people you rely on at work.</p>
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