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		<title>Attention is Oxygen for Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jul 2013 17:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Lee Stallard</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[<p>#2 Be Present in Conversations It’s been said that attention is oxygen for relationships. When interacting with people, be present in conversations. Get in the habit of staying focused on them and giving them your full attention. Be engaged and curious by asking questions and then asking follow-up questions to clarify. Listen carefully to words [&#8230;]</p>
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<h3>#2 Be Present in Conversations</h3>
<p>It’s been said that<b> </b>attention is oxygen for relationships. When interacting with people, be present in conversations. Get in the habit of staying focused on them and giving them your full attention. Be engaged and curious by asking questions and then asking follow-up questions to clarify. Listen carefully to words and observe facial expressions and body cues. Don&#8217;t check your smart phone, don&#8217;t look at your watch, don&#8217;t look around the room or let your mind wander.</p>
<p>Want to learn more? Watch the video above as Katharine P. Stallard shares tips for being present.</p>
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<p><em>This is the second post in our series entitled &#8220;100 Ways to Connect.&#8221; The series highlights attitudes and behaviors that help you connect with others.  Although the attitudes and behaviors focus on application in the workplace, you will see that they also apply to your relationships at home and in the community.</em></p>
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