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		<title>Your Leadership is Killing Me!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Mar 2013 12:18:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Lee Stallard</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[<p>Why do people react so strongly when they don&#8217;t have a voice in decision-making? Research suggests there is a rational biological basis for this reaction.  It comes down to this: feeling that we have little or no control is detrimental to our health. The famous Whitehall studies in the U.K. established that there was an [&#8230;]</p>
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					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why do people react so strongly when they don&#8217;t have a voice in decision-making? Research suggests there is a rational biological basis for this reaction.  It comes down to this: feeling that we have little or no control is detrimental to our health.</p>
<p>The famous <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Whitehall_Study">Whitehall studies</a> in the U.K. established that there was an inverse relationship between level of hierarchy, power, control, status and cardiorespiratory disease/mortality rates in members of the British Civil Service.  More recently, a group of researchers found that participants in a Harvard Business School program for leaders had lower stress (as measured by cortisol levels and self-reported anxiety levels) versus people in the local community who didn&#8217;t manage others.  The researchers also found that leaders with more powerful positions had even lower cortisol and self-reported anxiety.  Here is a link to the <a href="http://decisionlab.harvard.edu/_content/research/papers/Lerner_et_al._Leadership_Associated_with_Lower_Stress.pdf">published research</a> and to a <em>New York Times</em> article about it entitled &#8220;<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2012/10/28/opinion/sunday/its-easy-being-king.html?_r=0">It&#8217;s Easy Being King</a>.&#8221; <span id="more-5489"></span></p>
<p>Wise leaders create <a href="http://www.epluribuspartners.com/index.php/connection-culture">Connection Cultures</a> that diminish the negative effects of stress.  They do this by giving people a sense of control through keeping people informed on matters that are important to them, seeking people&#8217;s opinions and ideas on those matters and, when possible, considering the people&#8217;s input before making decisions then communicating the rationale for their decisions.  This isn&#8217;t always possible.  Some decisions are not that important.  Others require a quick response and time for input simply isn&#8217;t practical.  For decisions that directly affect people, decisions people are especially interested in, and decisions that many people will be called upon to implement, it is especially wise to give people a voice. Doing so will give them a greater sense of control and increase the likelihood that they will implement those decisions with greater effort.  It will also give them a better life, and quite possibly, more of it.</p>
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