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		<dc:creator>Michael Lee Stallard</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[<p>#6  Seek the Unique  &#8211; When meeting someone for the first time, ask questions to identify something that is both unique and positive about them.  Doing this will make you more likely to remember them and what differentiates them from others. While teaching a leadership seminar in Boston, a participant from the American Red Cross told me that Elizabeth [&#8230;]</p>
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<p><strong>#6  Seek the Unique </strong> <strong>&#8211;</strong> When meeting someone for the first time, ask questions to identify something that is both unique and positive about them.  Doing this will make you more likely to remember them and what differentiates them from others.</p>
<p>While teaching a leadership seminar in Boston, a participant from the American Red Cross told me that Elizabeth Dole, the former president of the Red Cross, practiced this and Ms. Dole frequently brought up in conversation what was unique about a person the next time she saw him/her. (This practice reflects the <a href="http://changethis.com/manifesto/44.06.ConnectionCulture/pdf/44.06.ConnectionCulture.pdf">Connection Culture</a> element of Value.)</p>
<p>This is the sixth post in our series entitled &#8220;100 Ways to Connect.&#8221; The series highlights language, attitudes and behaviors that help you connect with others.  Although the language, attitudes and behaviors focus on application in the workplace, you will see that they also apply to your relationships at home and in the community.</p>
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