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	<title>Michael Lee StallardConversation with Pat Farnack on Why &#8220;Brutal&#8221; Honesty Isn&#8217;t Ideal in the Workplace &#8211; Michael Lee Stallard</title>
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		<title>Conversation with Pat Farnack on Why &#8220;Brutal&#8221; Honesty Isn&#8217;t Ideal in the Workplace</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Dec 2021 00:24:40 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description><![CDATA[<p>Pat Farnack, longtime radio host on WCBS Newsradio 880 in New York City, recently interviewed me about the trend toward &#8220;brutal honesty&#8221; in the workplace and its unintended consequences.  While honesty is a good thing, brutal honesty often becomes an excuse for those with power to verbally abuse others. It creates a culture of control [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.michaelleestallard.com/conversation-pat-farnack-brutal-honesty-isnt-ideal-workplace">Conversation with Pat Farnack on Why &#8220;Brutal&#8221; Honesty Isn&#8217;t Ideal in the Workplace</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.michaelleestallard.com">Michael Lee Stallard</a>.</p>
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					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="760" height="389" src="http://www.michaelleestallard.com/wp-content/uploads/Brutally-Honest-Workplace_860x440-760x389.jpg" class="featured-image wp-post-image" alt="People yelling at each other in brutally honest workplace" srcset="http://www.michaelleestallard.com/wp-content/uploads/Brutally-Honest-Workplace_860x440-760x389.jpg 760w, http://www.michaelleestallard.com/wp-content/uploads/Brutally-Honest-Workplace_860x440-300x153.jpg 300w, http://www.michaelleestallard.com/wp-content/uploads/Brutally-Honest-Workplace_860x440-768x393.jpg 768w, http://www.michaelleestallard.com/wp-content/uploads/Brutally-Honest-Workplace_860x440-518x265.jpg 518w, http://www.michaelleestallard.com/wp-content/uploads/Brutally-Honest-Workplace_860x440-82x42.jpg 82w, http://www.michaelleestallard.com/wp-content/uploads/Brutally-Honest-Workplace_860x440-600x307.jpg 600w, http://www.michaelleestallard.com/wp-content/uploads/Brutally-Honest-Workplace_860x440.jpg 860w" sizes="(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /><p>Pat Farnack, longtime radio host on WCBS Newsradio 880 in New York City, recently interviewed me about the trend toward &#8220;brutal honesty&#8221; in the workplace and its unintended consequences. <span id="more-8796"></span></p>
<p>While honesty is a good thing, brutal honesty often becomes an excuse for those with power to verbally abuse others. It creates a culture of control and fear rather than a culture of connection. Instead of brutal honesty, encourage honesty combined with respect. This approach increases the likelihood of critical information making its way up the chain to decision makers.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.audacy.com/wcbs880/podcasts/health-and-well-being-193/michael-lee-stallard-connection-culture-984326999" target="_blank">Listen to the full interview</a> for more on this topic, what to do if you find yourself in a brutal workplace, and thoughts on what&#8217;s driving the Great Resignation.</p>
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